Depressing - Whangarei Leader - 8th June 2010
Closer communities - Northern Advocate - 4th June 2010
In my youth
times were tough for many but most people had broad family or community
connections. Family, friends and neighbours socialised making
their own entertainment, youth seldom made trouble without someone noticing and
doing something about it. Things did go wrong, never a perfect world,
but people usually supported each other and were generally pretty happy. The decent family men would soon put a stop
to the not so decent men who mistreated a member of the family, usually someone
was around home during the day and there were enough local policemen (bobbies) to know their community. Were
things hidden then, are we
truly better off today? My
family held concerts, my father sang a song ….. ‘When
you’re smiling, when you’re smiling, the whole world smiles with you’, it
really cheered us up!
This
leads to the subject brought to my attention recently, depression. Who gets it and why? Apparently anyone can get depression and for
many reasons. It’s well known that Mike
King, John Kirwan and Lady Diana suffered from it
proving that suffers are often high achievers, perfectionists.
Sadly, lacking
understanding, many people avoid the topic or sufferers. My
research so far has only touched on the subject but I sense that people feel isolated
and unhappy despite the fact they are living in well populated towns and cities? Like most issues perhaps we need to realize
the community holds the answers. What
can be done?
Through
this column I’d be interested in the opinions of others, professional or
otherwise, regarding depression or closer communities.
Pat
Slater
Maunu