Hospice awareness
I’ve been prompted to write
about a worthy cause, North Haven Hospice’s lead-up to Hospice Awareness Week with
its message ‘dying matters to the living’.
It’s made me ponder a few things.
Family and friends, young
and old, can pass away through terminal illness. Believing lessons are learnt in life and
often looking at negatives in the hope of attaining a positive, I wonder what
lesson is in such a situation. People
experience joy to sadness, confidence to doubt, inner peace to turmoil, the
list goes on. No one gets it totally perfect. The lesson may be to never take life for
granted. Nature, family, friends, pets
and researching topics does it for me.
The question though, what
can I do? The answer was not what I was
looking for…not much… to put a small donation in the collector’s bucket on 14th
May. How disappointing! Searching my sole I know from personal
experience that caring for the elderly requires a lot of time. We can all have commitments. Hopefully
in the future I’ll get to do more. Maybe
I should remember something I was taught through the action of my parents,
charity begins at home. If more people were
able to look after one’s own we would not require so much of the services provided,
but It’s not a perfect world.
Through various
circumstances many need the help of Hospice and those who provide its services. Through
this use of ‘Letter’s to the Editor’ I wanted to give a plug for this appeal.
Oh, I was also taught to
look after myself so I can look after others.
So, if like me you can only drop a little into that bucket, or perhaps
not even that, remember what else you put into this world and don’t beat
yourself up too much.
Hospice
awareness week is 17th to 23rd May
Pat
Slater
Maunu
(abridged items in
italics)